Wellness
THRESHOLD: Crossing Into Your Most Authentic Power
“The script of individual destiny is secret;
it is hidden behind and beneath the sequence of happenings
that is continually unfolding for us.“
~~ John O’Donohue
Greetings to all my precious people!!
On this ancient night of Samhain, when the veil between worlds grows gossamer-thin, we stand at the most potent threshold of the year. But there’s another crossing happening here – one that has nothing to do with ghosts and everything to do with the woman you’re becoming. After weeks of practicing discernment, conscious breathing, sacred boundaries, healing grief, and trusting intuition, you stand at the threshold of your most authentic power.
The Sacred Stepping-Off Point
This isn’t about becoming someone new. This is about finally becoming who you’ve always been beneath the layers of should and supposed-to, beneath the masks of people-pleasing and the armor of self-protection. At midlife, every threshold becomes an invitation to step more fully into the truth of who you are and the medicine you came here to offer.
INTUITION: Strengthen Inner Knowing as the Veil Grows Thin
“The intellect has little to do on the road to discovery.
There comes a leap in consciousness,
call it intuition or what you will,
the solution comes to you
and you don’t know how or why.“
~~ Albert Einstein
Greetings to all my precious people!!
As October deepens and we approach the ancient celebration of Samhain, the veil between worlds naturally grows thin. But there’s another veil that dissolves during this season – the one between our thinking mind and our knowing heart. Intuition isn’t mystical fantasy; it’s the most practical guidance system we possess, refined through decades of lived experience and finally ready to be fully trusted.
The Portal Within
At midlife, something profound shifts in our relationship to inner knowing. The external authorities we once deferred to – parents, partners, cultural expectations, even our younger selves – begin to lose their power over us. In their place emerges something far more reliable: the accumulated wisdom of our own lived experience speaking through the portal of intuition.
GRIEF: The Hidden Gateway to Autumn’s Deepest Medicine
“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.”
— C. S. Lewis
Greetings to all my precious people!!
Every Autumn, trees perform the most beautiful act of grief imaginable – they release what has sustained them all summer, trusting that this letting go is not loss but preparation for new life. In Traditional Chinese Medicine, grief is not a pathology to be fixed but the natural emotion of the Metal element, the feeling that allows us to honor what has been while creating space for what’s becoming.
The Sacred Sadness That Clears the Way
At midlife, we often find ourselves in seasons of multiple griefs – not just the obvious losses, but the subtle mourning of who we used to be, dreams that didn’t manifest as expected, and the sweet sorrow of watching our children grow beyond needing us. This isn’t depression or getting stuck in sadness. This is the sacred work of clearing the emotional field so new possibilities can take root.
DISCERNMENT: The Art of Knowing What to Keep
“Love and compassion don’t at all have to make us weak,
or lead us to losing discernment and vision.
We just have to learn how to find them.
And see, in truth, what they bring us.”
– Sharon Salzberg
Greetings to all my precious people!!
There’s a moment every Autumn when you walk outside and suddenly know – not think, but know – that everything has shifted. The light falls differently. The air carries both the fullness of harvest and the promise of release. Your body recognizes what your mind might miss: this is the season of discernment, when Nature herself demonstrates the profound art of knowing what to keep and what to let go.
Trust & Truth: The Integration Practice
“Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find all the barriers
within yourself that you have built against it.”
~~ Rumi
Greetings to all my precious people!!
We’ve completed an extraordinary journey together. From kindness as embodied healing through awakening, grace, contribution, joy, possibility, resilience, remembering ancient wisdom, self-compassion, and surrender—we arrive at the integration point: TRUST & TRUTH.
Not the small truths of personal preference or opinion. Not the rigid truths that exclude complexity and paradox. But the living truth of who you’ve become through this journey—and the radical trust required to offer that authentic medicine to a world that needs exactly what you’ve learned to give.
This is where everything comes together: trusting your healing journey enough to live your truth out loud.
